Co dependent?

Been wanting to talk to SO, but am refraining from calling her, as I'd said I would, until she's clear about what she feels about our relationship. Feeling exasperated that she isn't calling - am I dependent (on her)? I'd wanted to discuss about G's altercation with a local dada - just exchange small talk...

JB had said something about co-dependency relationship. Am I in a co-dependency relationship? Confused.

Just checked out again what codependency means - one of the persons in the codependency relationship is necessarily someone who has excessive needs, neither SO nor I qualify for that.